Have you ever been dating a new guy and it felt like he was testing you? Join the Sexy Confidence Club: In this video, I'm going to be reviewing four tests that most men put women through to determine whether or not they want to commit to her. After this video, you will be armed with the knowledge of the type of tests that men usually put women through and exactly how it is that you can pass these tests!
How Men Test Women #1: Casual Relationship Test
Test number one is called the casual relationship test. A lot of single guys out there who have options of lots of women they could potentially date will try to see if they can keep a relationship casual during those early stages. What the casual relationship does is allows the guy to get relationship benefits without actually being in a relationship.
The way to pass this test is not to give a guy relationship benefits unless you are actually in a committed, exclusive relationship. This expands beyond just what most people think, which is just sexual intimacy, and this extends further than that into really emotional intimacy — always being there for him, being his support system every single step of the way where he's not doing the same for you.
How Men Test Women #2: The Bro Test
The second test is what I call the bro test. This is where a guy if he likes a girl, is going to bring her out with his guy friends and see how she does. In his mind, he's going to be thinking, can she hang with the boys? Now, contrary to a lot of advice out there, you don't have to be farting and burping and drinking beer every single step of the way to pass this test, and in fact, there really should be no passing of gas until, I would say, that one year mark in a relationship.
The way to pass this test when you're hanging out with your new guy's bro friends is to ask these guys questions about themselves. Instead of always talking about yourself, rather than doing that, take the energy off of yourself and place it elsewhere. Ask the guys what do they like to do for fun? Where do they like to go out at night? Ask them questions about the guy that you are talking to. Get some insider information there. That is a way you can start connecting with these guys. The best way to get someone to like you is to get them talking about themselves. It's a strange psychological effect.
How Men Test Women #3: The Family Test
The next test is the family test. This is where a guy presents you to his family. If he's younger, he might introduce you to his parents, or if he's a little bit older, he might introduce you to his kids. This is where you're probably going to have to talk about yourself a little bit more because chances are if you've been in this situation, you've realized that these people want to get to know you.
The way to pass this test when you're meeting someone's family for the first time is just to put a little bit of thought into each of those areas because chances are, they will be discussed, and then finally,
How Men Test Women #4: The Wife Material Test
Last but not least is what I call the wife material test. This is where a guy is deciding whether or not this would be the type of woman he'd want to settle down with. Do you like to do the same things? Do you have the same vision of your future moving forward? And then it can go all the way down to the more like tactical things such as do you like to cook? Would you be able to cook? Are you a complete slob? Is your house a complete disaster all the time? These are things that men are always looking out for when they're deciding if they want to commit for the long haul.
This video was designed to give you some insight into the male mind, and it's not intended for you to manipulate yourself into someone that you're not. Yes, tests do happen, and by the way, you should also be testing men every single step of the way.
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